Monday, October 13, 2014

Birth Story


My wife had Baby #2. She labored like a champ for a day and a night and I just want to mention that for most of the time a woman is in labor in a hospital, there's no doctor there. The nurses say there's a doctor there, but there isn't. They say things like, "The doctor says to increase your pitocin," but it's an illusion, like the Wizard of Oz. The doctor might have called on the phone or whatever, but they're nowhere near that hospital. They might roll out of bed and drive over in their Mercedes if things get wild, but until then: we all know there's no doctor.

When a doctor did finally arrive she congratulated my wife on all of her hours of labor and announced that the baby would need to be ripped out aka "delivered via cesarean section."

Bummer.

When we were in the operating room the OB and her staff we're just talking away about the stupidest things, such as: "Have you tried that new burger place? You can get a bacon cheeseburger with a fried egg on top, and then a chocolate milkshake with bacon bits in it.”

I wanted to shout, “Can you idiots please focus!"

Right here I wrote some more details about the c-section operation, but it's just a drag so I edited it out, which is not to say I'm not glad my son is here, because I am, even though he still looks like wrinkly old man. Through the whole bloody ordeal my main thought was: There has to be a less violent way to make people.

My wife was upbeat and serene and it got me thinking. Moms go through all that pain for their child, who they don't even know. He could grow up to be a murderer or a lawyer or a Republican for all they know, but they do it anyway. That level of selflessness and sacrifice blows my mind.

Welcome to the world, Baby #2. I will never forget the day you were born.

3 comments:

  1. Congrats! Before I had kids I always thought that the Dr. was there the whole time....hahahahaha.

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  2. Quote of the year: "There has to be a less violent way to make people." You make me laugh REALLY hard. And I love to laugh.

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  3. Congratulations on your new family member. A child could grow up to be a Republican? If I'd known that, I think I would have remained childless. Happily, my children are as liberal as I am, if not more so. When I had Favorite Young Man, nobody pretended a doctor was there. At the last minute, the doctor was on his way to the hospital (it was about five minutes from his office), and FYM started to pop his little head out. The nurses didn't want to deliver him, so one pushed him back in. The the doctor finally arrived, and I was "allowed" to have my baby. A doctor was on duty at all time when I had The Hurricane. I was in a Group Health hospital in Seattle. The ob/gyn on duty came around to check on me not long after I arrived. After a bit, my own doctor arrived and stayed in the room for about six hours until The Beautiful, Perfect Hurricane twirled and whirled into life. That was a great hospital and a great doctor.

    Love,
    Janie

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